23 FEBRUARY 2005
Mike
is now gone. We will miss him so much. This is the last family photo
before he left. Boy, any family photos of the four of us will sure
look different after he gets home. Annie will be at least 2 years
old and Amelia around 7 months. He will be a stranger to Mimi, but
I wonder if Annie will remember him. We filmed Mike and Annie playing
and reading a story a few days before he left. I plan to show the
video to Annie often so that Mike will hopefully remain fresh in
her mind. I just need to figure out how to transfer the video from
the camcorder to DVD. Any advice would be great!! Mike is probably
already in Iraq at this time. I've posted some pictures and details
about his departure on his "Iraq"
page. Please feel free to check it out.
On
Sunday we had Mimi blessed at home. Unfortunately, I was kind of
in a daze and forgot to take lots of pictures of her in her dress
and posing with us as a family. We did, however, manage a couple
of cute pictures of her in her dress. It's actually the same dress
that Annie wore for her blessing. I'm sure most people can understand
that we had a few too many things on our minds that day. Mimi is
growing quite rapidly. Her cheeks get bigger by the minute. She
is awake much more during the day now and is getting better at holding
her head up. She is following the same path Annie was. Does this
mean I will have another hyper-active child? Probably. Oh well,
I shouldn't have expected anything different since Mike and I were
such stinkers as little kids. I've updated "Mimi's
1st Month" album on her "Amelia"
page. Have a look.
Annie
has been a real pistol the last couple of days. She is definitely
an assertive little girl that must have her demands met immediately.
If not, then she will scream, throw herself on the floor, or just
start throwing things. I think much of it has to do with her being
tired or hungry at the time, but it's still no way to act. It will
be a battle of the wills for the next few months, I'm sure. Other
than that, Annie seems to be taking quite a liking to Amelia now.
She wants to kiss and hug her a lot. I still have to monitor Annie
around the baby, but I think she's finally accepted Mimi's presence.
That's one less thing to worry about. Annie is still making lots
of progress developmentally. She will pretty much repeat any word
you say to her such as geese, cheese, thank you, done, and much
more. The picture above is of Annie answering Grandma Olsen's question,
"How old are you?" I've added some pictures to "Annie's"
page on her "18th Month Album".
Kathy, Mike's mom, is now here and has been a big
help to me. She is also helping to keep me company and my mind off
Mike so much since his departure. We will (or at least I will) try
to stay busy while she's here. My mind is wandering trying to think
of lots of projects to do while Mike is gone. I think it will help
me to have way too much to do.
I've already completed one project since Kathy's
been here. I sewed a duvet cover for Annie's bed. I have yet to
take any pictures of all the projects that have been completed in
the past few months. I promise I will do that as soon as I finish
the bulletin boards that I am going to make for each of the girls'
rooms. I just don't want to be constantly having to change the pictures
on the website. Kathy is also going to help me complete the quilt
I'm making for Annie's bed. It won't be completed while she's here
though because she is going to take it home with her to have her
quilting lady finish it off. That will probably take a couple of
months.
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18 FEBRUARY 2005
Much
has happened this week. My mom was here to help for Mimi's (Mimi
is Amelia's nickname) arrival and help take care of Annie. She did
a great job keeping Annie busy and letting me focus on Mimi's needs.
She also did all the stuff that I would have neglected like laundry,
cleaning, and making meals. I probably would have lost more baby
fat in the past week had my mom not been here to make pancake and
bacon breakfasts for me almost daily. Sadly, my mom left a few days
early for work-related reasons leaving me to care for Annie and
Mimi alone. It was scary at first, but I managed to not run screaming
into oncoming traffic.
Mimi
is doing quite well. She is getting bigger each day. I took her
to the doctor for her post-hospital visit on February 9th. She regained
the weight she lost in the hospital and grew 2/3 of an inch. She
is a monster eater. She did catch cold from everyone (we were all
sick with stuffy noses, sore throats, etc.) and ended up with a
stuffy nose and a runny eye. I was worried about Mimi possibly having
pink eye, so the doctor told me to bring her in for a look-see.
He said it wasn't pink eye but that it could be a blocked tear duct
or just from the cold. It seems to be getting better now. At that
visit Mimi was already up to 8 pounds. She is definitely going to
be a larger baby than Annie. I think it took Annie a month to reach
8 pounds. Check out the pictures in "Mimi's
1st Month" album on her page.
Annie
is still adjusting to Mimi's "visit". She knows her name
and makes sure to say it everytime she touches her (which is quite
often). She poked Mimi in her good eye yesterday. For a while, Mimi
had two runny eyes, but now she's back to just the one runny eye.
Annie is throwing a few more tantrums daily. They actually seem
to come more often when her daddy is home. She has really turned
into a daddy's girl. She wants to wrestle and play with him every
minute he is home. She is sure going to miss him when he leaves.
She seems so big to me now that Mimi is here. Now if only we could
get her potty-trained so that I won't have to change double the
diapers anymore. I've added an 18th
Month album to Annie's page. Please have
a look. This will probably be the last album I do for Annie. Instead
her pictures will go in the Memories pages and other such albums.
I haven't quite decided how I will do it.
Lucy
traveled up to Minnesota this past Saturday. The Wallace family
(Chris, Katie, Dave, Jordan, E-Lee, and Jackson) were gracious enough
to offer to take Lucy off my hands while Mike is in Iraq. I was
reluctant to accept their offer at first until Mike went away to
Bethesda, MD a few weeks ago. I quickly realized that Lucy's departure
was mandatory for my sanity. She will enjoy herself much more with
E-Lee and Jackson to frolic with everyday. So far she is doing great
up there. However, we have received reports that she persists in
standing up to the kitchen counters to steal food. Hopefully, the
Wallaces can break her of this horrible habit. Thanks again to the
Wallaces for doing such a great deed!!!
Mike
has received official word that he will depart from America on Monday,
February 21, 2005. He has to report in the morning but won't actually
travel oversees until late that night. In the meantime, he will
be doing a lot of sitting around. We hope to be able to visit with
each other for a little while during the day. For those of you that
don't know, Mike is going to Iraq for about seven months. I have
added a page called "Mike in Iraq"
(on the left side of the website) that will have pictures of Mike's
adventures in Iraq, his mailing address, care package ideas, and
other deployment related information. I will keep adding to this
page as I receive more information from Mike or if there are any
changes.
Mike's mom, Kathy, will arrive tomorrow to help
me. I will probably be a basket-case next week after Mike's departure
(sorry to Kathy in advance). She plans to stay for 3 weeks. I hope
she doesn't run screaming from here before her 3 weeks are up. I
think that's the real reason my mom left early. (Just kidding, Mom!)
Mike looks forward to being able to see his mom so soon before leaving
for Iraq.
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08 FEBRUARY 2005
She's
here! And fast! Amelia Ruth arrived on February 4th 2005 at 9:21
p.m. She weighed 7 pounds, 4 ounces and was 19 1/3 inches long.
She's beautiful, healthy, and we love her so much. Annie's still
on the fence, but she's making progress. The world has revolved
around Annie up until little Amelia popped into our lives. I'm sure
she will grow to love Amelia as much as we do. So far Amelia is
very soft-spoken and very laid back. Her cries are so different
than Annie's. Annie made sure everyone knew she was now part of
our world. Amelia is slowly making her presence known.
I had decided (with the encouragement of Miss Sara)
that I would take castor oil that day. I finally braved it at 4:00
p.m. (For those who are curious, castor oil is about the nastiest
thing I ever tasted. Picture drinking a tablespoon of Canola Oil
but thicker.) My water broke around 7:00 p.m. (Luckily, my mom got
into town the day before to help us out.) I started to have contractions
around 7:30 p.m. Mike and my mom immediately wanted me to go to
the hospital, but I wasn't sure if it was just the castor oil playing
tricks on my body. When the contractions just kept getting progressively
more painful and closer, Mike insisted that we go to the hospital
while stating he did not want to deliver the baby at home.
We got to the hospital at about 8:40 p.m. I was
no longer able to walk, so Mike found a wheelchair for me. The nurse
checked my dilation and to make sure my water had actually broken
(it had) and said that I was dilated between 4 and 5 cm. So they
put me into a labor and delivery room. We weren't in there for more
than 10 minutes before I felt like Amelia was on her way out. Oh,
and I was told that I was not able receive any pain medication since
I was already dilated between 9 and 10 cm. So it came time to push
Amelia out. She finally made her full appearance at 9:21 p.m.
You may notice an extra button on the left side
of the page. I've added a page for Amelia.
It will be set up the same as Annie's page.
Please feel free to view it. I've already added the pictures
that we have of Amelia so far.
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